When you develop an acquaintance with someone, or start a conversation with someone, unless they are unbearable, don't drop the thread, that means of course not just like a FB thread, but the thread of an idea, train of thought, or an energy thread that connects you with another person in some way. (If they are unbearable you should really drop them from your list.) Sometimes it might take 5 yrs. to get back to it, but if you feel like it, go back to where you left off. If they do not respond to you then you can let go.
Say what you have to say to people, or about people on Yelp, etc. Just say it even if you think it's stupid. On the computer you can always revise it later, but then if somebody's already read it, they probably will never go back at all to see the change. I once belonged to a group, or website, called Blurtit. It was fabulous, people blurting all over the place. I don't think it exists anymore.
You should remember to thank people appropriately when they have done you a world of good or given you something nice. A gift always helps too, when you are trying to mend a relationship of whatever kind, friendship, business or otherwise. It's a social network. You are not alone in this world. The phone, internet, sending pictures electronically, all these things and many more tie us together like never before, and can do it instantly. Thoughts travel, feelings are passed on. Everything can work better if you express yourself.
Understanding yourself is helpful to your own self-esteem and also helps others in tremendous ways. It's alright to take some time to get in touch with yourself any way you can do it, preferably several different ways.
Say what you have to say to people, or about people on Yelp, etc. Just say it even if you think it's stupid. On the computer you can always revise it later, but then if somebody's already read it, they probably will never go back at all to see the change. I once belonged to a group, or website, called Blurtit. It was fabulous, people blurting all over the place. I don't think it exists anymore.
You should remember to thank people appropriately when they have done you a world of good or given you something nice. A gift always helps too, when you are trying to mend a relationship of whatever kind, friendship, business or otherwise. It's a social network. You are not alone in this world. The phone, internet, sending pictures electronically, all these things and many more tie us together like never before, and can do it instantly. Thoughts travel, feelings are passed on. Everything can work better if you express yourself.
Understanding yourself is helpful to your own self-esteem and also helps others in tremendous ways. It's alright to take some time to get in touch with yourself any way you can do it, preferably several different ways.
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